#17. A love that is True

LOVE. 
Lahat tayo minahal, minamahal, nagmahal at nagmamahal. Walang sinuman sa mundong ito ang hindi pa nakakaranas ng pagmamahal. Totoo man o hindi. Pero nabanggit ko na lang din yung TOTOO, paano mo malalaman kung totoo o hindi yung pinapakita niya sayo na sa tingin mong pag-ibig yun. Sa totoo lang, mahirap i-identify yung totoo sa hindi. Kumbaga kailangan mo pang pumasok sa katawan nung taong iyon mahagilap mo lang yung totoong feelings na gusto mong makita. Masaya ang mahalin, masaya ang magmahal. Pero ang mahirap yung masaktan. 

What Love means to a 4-8 year old: A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, ’What does love mean?’ The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined 
See what you think:
‘When my grandmother got arthritis , she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore.. So my grandfather does it for her all the time , even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.’ – Rebecca, age 8 
‘When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.’ – Billy, age 4 
‘Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.’ – Karl, age 5 
‘Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.’ –Chrissy, age 6 
‘Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.’ -Terri, age 4 
‘Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him , to make sure the taste is OK.’ – Danny, age 7 
‘Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing , you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss’ – Emily, age 8 
‘Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.’ –Bobby, age 7
‘If you want to learn to love better , you should start with a friend who you hate” –Nikka, age 6 
‘Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt , then he wears it everyday..’ –Noelle, age 7 
‘Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.’ –Tommy, age 6 
‘During my piano recital , I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.’ – Cindy, age 8 
‘My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.’ –Clare, age 6 
‘Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.’ –Elaine, age 5 
‘Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.’ –Chris, age 7 
‘Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.’ -Mary Ann, age 4 
‘I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.’ –Lauren, age 4 
‘When you love somebody , your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.’ - Karen, age 7 
‘Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross..’ –Mark, age 6 
‘You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.’ –Jessica, age 8
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, ‘Nothing , I just helped him cry’. 
Ref: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151248093003614&set=a.71588308613.70098.505443613&type=1&theater
Ilan lamang iyan sa mga sagot ng mga bata sa isang poll question. Hindi mo akalaing ang mga sagot nila ay talagang mababaw nilang sinabi pero mapapaisip ka talaga. Para sa mga hindi bata, mas malalim yung ibig sabihin ng LOVE pero madali lang intindihin pero mahirap gawin at mas mahirap panindigan.
LOVE-The English word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure ("I loved that meal") to interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). It can refer to an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment.[1] It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection—"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".[2] And it may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love

Blogger's POV.
Sa sobrang laki ng sakop ng PAG-IBIG, hahati-hatiin ko na lang para mas swabe, mas hindi masakit sa ulo, at hindi na rin ako mag-isip ng malalim. (hahahaha)

LOVE of FAMILY- ito yung pagmamahal na makikita mo lamang sa pamilya. Walang halong kamanyakan. Malalaman mong may LOVE sa family kung...

-hindi man kayo sabay-sabay kumain, pero concern ang isa't isa kung kumain kanaba (CARE)-hindi man kayo nagsisimba, pero pare-pareho kayong may respeto sa isa't isa walang bastusan pre!-nagdadamayan, naguutangan saka kahit na hindi magsabi ng Iloveyou sa isa't isa ramdam pa rin yung presence ng pag-ibig.-...and etc. (end of thinking capacity)

LOVE OF FRIENDS - ito naman yung pagmamahal na makikita mo sa iyong mga kaibigan. Yung tipong halos parang kapatid na rin ang turingan niyo. Kaya hindi rin ito nalalayo sa characteristics ng LOVE OF FAMILY. Para sa TOTOO at hindi totoong kaibigan may blog ako diyan at syempre basahin niyo nalang din para alam niyo. http://cutandfriends.blogspot.com/

LOVE OF A BF/GF - Minsan nakakainis na, madalas ang pumapasok sa isip ng mga tao kapag sinabing LOVE ay yung pagmamahalan nila ng kasintahan niya. Hello?! Marami kayang ibig sabihin ang LOVE at hindi lang para sa dalawang tao. Kalma, ito yung pagmamahal na makikita sa dalawang taong nagmamahalan ng higit pa sa isang kaibigan. Sabi nila sa panahon daw ngayon mahirap na tukuyin kung sino yung SERYOSO sa HINDI. Kaya dahil ang blog na ito ay request ng aking Bestfriend, ibibigay ko ang ilan sa palatandaan ng TRUE LOVE.
Liligawan ka sa personal at kapag naging kayo na patuloy pa rin siya sa panliligaw sayo at hindi siya magsasawa.Bago ka ipakilala sa magulang niya, ipapakilala ka muna niya sa Panginoon niya dahil ang relasyong sentro ang Panginoon, sigurado akong magkaproblema man iyan, si Lord and bahala diyan.Ipapakilala ka sa mga magulang dahil para sa kanya, ikaw na ang huling babaeng/lalakeng mananatili sa buhay niya.Handang magSORRY kahit hindi naman niya pagkakamali kasi ayaw na niyang  mag-away pa kayo.Hindi ka kakampihan sa alam niyang hindi naman makakabuti sayong mga desisyon mo.Marunong maghintay ng tamang panahon para maka-iskor, at ito yung panahong napag-isang dibdib na kayo ng Diyos.Lagi kang inaalala, tinatawagan, tinetext dahil gusto niya nasa mabuting lagay ka palagi.May pangarap para sa inyong dalawa at sa future niyo at nakikita mo na ginagawan niya ng paraan ang mga bagay na ito.Hinding hindi ka paiiyakin maliban sa pagpropose niya at sa kasal niyong dalawa.Pinakahuli sa lahat, yung marunong tumupad sa PANGAKO. Kasi kung talagang mahal na mahal ka niya, kapag nangako siya at alam niyang para sayo yun, gagawin at gagawin niya yun at di ka niya bibiguin.

Syempre dahil patapos na ang BLOG na ito, pasensya na kayo readers pero may isa pang hindi nababanggit. Sa lahat ng LOVE na nabanggit ko ito yung SURE na TRUE LOVE. No other than the GOD's LOVE. Si God, kahit na makailang ulit ka na kasalanan sa kanya kailangan niya lang yung sinseridad mo sa paghingi ng tawad, papatawarin ka pa rin niya kahit na mas malaki pa sa bahay niyo yung kasalanan mo. Si God? Kahit na sinasaktan mo Siya, PROMISE, hindi ka Niya sasaktan. Alam mo kung bakit ka nasasaktan? Kasi hindi mo tinatanggap sa sarili mo na di mo kaya, na duwag at mahina ka at higit sa lahat dahil ikaw mismo yung gumagawa ng ikakasama mo. Si God, hindi ka niya pabayaan kahit na kalimutan mo pa siya. Higit sa lahat, si God, kahit na iwanan mo siya hinding hindi ka niya iiwan at kahit na bitiwan mo Siya, hinding hindi ka Niya bibitawan. Kasi nga ito yung pangakong pag-ibig sa atin ng Panginoon. Yung totoo. Yung masarap at masaya.
Kaya sabi nga nila, kung magmamahal ka nalang din, unahin mo munang mahalin ang Diyos. Kasi Siya ang sasalo sayo kapag nahulog ka o nasaktan ka. Iyan ang TRUE LOVE.


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